Single Mother By ChoiceAre you a single mother or father by choice? Welcome to the Postpartum Project!

We salute you.  Statistics show that single mothers by choice are a growing phenomenon, There are 10 million single mother-lead families in the United States (Census). 3x the number in 1960.  25% of families are headed by single moms. (Pew). 40% of babies born in the United States are born to single mothers. (Pew)

As a recent divorce, a dear friend of mine who is a proud single mother by choice, urges me to just go online and buy sperm if I want another child. She states the advantages of being a single mother by choice are:

  1.  Having a child makes you a man magnet.Why? Because you are no longer needy. You are a self-sufficient hot single mama.
  2. When a single mother by choice does date and marry or re-marry, she makes the calls in terms of how to raise her child.No strange co-parenting where the father wants to raise the baby Hindu and you want to raise her as a Jew.
  3. It is empowering. It takes courage to go against the grain, be brave. Take that leap.


Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience. Paulo Coelho